About OneSky's orphanage programmes
OneSky helps the Chinese government and welfare workers find ways to provide the best nurturing care and early education for orphaned and abandoned children. The charity also works in Mongolia and Vietnam.
Anjing, which means quiet, was abandoned as a baby in China due to her birth defects. She was taken into an orphanage and cared for by the charity聽.听Now four, she has been adopted and has found her “forever family” 鈥 as well as a brighter future.
OneSky teaches communities and caregivers to provide the nurturing responsive care and early education that unlocks the vast potential hidden in the most vulnerable young children.
For children with disabilities, those early years are particularly crucial. Failure to identify and help them at a young age could condemn them to a lifetime of disadvantages.听
础听report published by sa国际传媒聽in July said聽countries and the international community need to invest urgently in early interventions for disabled children and provide inclusive, quality pre-primary education.
Here we look at the moving story of聽Anjing – left in a corridor as a baby with little hope of survival.
Debbie Cohen of OneSky explains…聽
When Anjing was born in a hospital in southern China, her legs were out of place, one on each side of her body, in a V position and her feet and hands were twisted as well. The doctors had never seen this rare birth defect, called athrogryposis (鈥渃urved joints鈥).
Her parents abandoned her and so she was taken to the local orphanage where she was given the name Anjing because she never complained.
Through OneSky, the baby was taken to Chunhui China Care Home in Beijing when she was more than a year old, where specialist medical treatment and operations to put her legs back in place were organised.
After a year鈥檚 recuperation, Anjing went back to her local orphanage, where she was placed in OneSky鈥檚 Loving Families Programme and given a foster family to live with.
Karen Han, OneSky鈥檚 Communications Manager in China, takes up the story…
When she arrived at the orphanage as a newborn, one of the carers said she was a “sunshine girl鈥 even though she wasn鈥檛 expected to live, let alone beam with laughter and love.
But her OneSky-trained carer vowed to care for Anjing as if she were already a sunshine girl – not a tiny, broken baby who had been abandoned in a hospital corridor because of a severe birth defect.听
That carer was the first of several OneSky-trained caregivers who led her to the day when she said goodbye to her preschool teachers, foster mum, dad and siblings and opened her heart to her adoptive family.
In preschool, Anjing loved the toy kitchen where she could be a good mum, just like Mama Chen (Chen Yanqing), her foster mum.
OneSky helps the Chinese government and welfare workers find ways to provide the best nurturing care and early education for orphaned and abandoned children. The charity also works in Mongolia and Vietnam.
Anjing 鈥渃ooked鈥, she put the 鈥渇ood鈥 into different 鈥渂owls鈥 and shared it with her 鈥渒ids.鈥 When she asked, 鈥淲ho wants a spoon?鈥 her friends would raise their hands and she carefully served the 鈥渕eal鈥.
Like Mama Chen, Anjing鈥檚 preschool teacher Li Lingyu has helped prepare Anjing to meet her new family.听
Though her doctors cautioned that Anjing might never sit up, stand or walk on her own, she has mastered sitting and standing and teacher Li has helped her work on walking.
At home before her departure, Anjing鈥檚 foster dad Jiang had prepared himself. Anjing was a 鈥榙addy鈥檚 girl鈥, greeting him every night when he came home late from a long day at work. 鈥淗ug,鈥 she would say to him.
On the day Anjing was to meet her new family finally, Anjing鈥檚 dad kissed his sleeping daughter for the last time, her brother Miaosheng gave Anjing his last hug before he went to school, her sister Xiangdie combed her hair gently, and Nana patted Anjing鈥檚 shoulder as if to wish her the best of luck.
Mama Chen had asked Anjing to pick out her favourite photos in their family album, organised the progress reports written by her OneSky caregivers – and carefully packed them and her orthopaedic shoes and favourite panda in her new pink bag, along with this note:
“Anjing likes to eat eggs, chicken, and fruit; please massage her feet after a foot bath every night; please make sure she wears her orthopaedic shoes every night.鈥
Then it was time for the drive to the adoption centre accompanied by Teacher Li. During the trip, Anjing had whispered in Li鈥檚 ear: “Teacher, I鈥檒l tell you a secret.”聽
Teacher Li whispered back: “Tell me what is it. I won鈥檛 tell anyone.” Anjing said: “I鈥檓 wearing a new pair of socks!” A present from her new mum.
When Anjing and Li arrived, her new Chinese-American family (OneSky does not take part in the adoption process) were waiting to take her back to their home.听
Her new big sister touched Anjing鈥檚 face, kissed her and patted her gently on the shoulder. Her big brothers couldn鈥檛 take their eyes off Anjing but held back.
鈥淐ome on, hug your new sister,” mum urged. They approached Anjing, hugged her quickly, stepped back shyly and giggled.
As Anjing grows up, the memory of receiving the gifts and the faces of those who cared for her will fade as she is enveloped in the love of her new family.
But the gift of unconditional love she received from her caregivers in China, which enabled Anjing to thrive despite the daunting physical and emotional challenges of her youngest years and readied her to embrace the love of her new family, will endure.
sa国际传媒鈥檚 work on early childhood development is supported by the Conrad N. Hilton Foundation.